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Adding Excitement To Your Life

2012-01-31T00:00:00.000-08:00

Life holds so many challenges. Many of us want to avoid these challenges, but as we look back these are the things that make our life exciting. Challenges come in all shapes and sizes and while some test our very core others are just simply a learning experience to grow from. Learning to drive was a challenge, as well as asking your beloved out for the first time. Once we meet and work through these wonderful challenges we grow and move on to another challenge.

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Sexy Challenges are a great way for challenges to enrich your life. Allowing your partner and you to partake in a wonderful expression of intimacy and passion. Each challenge is designed to not only enhance your sex life, but also the communication that is so important in your relationship. Sexy Challenges also help you understand how to reach your Blended Spirit as a couple. Click the link below to find our more about Sexy Challenges.

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You Don't Stay the Same

2012-01-30T00:00:00.001-08:00

Today we are not the same as yesterday

for all is impermanent

With non-attachment we can have

love and compassion for and appreciation of

our experiences which offer

opportunities for growth and expansion

--Janelle Alex

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Change Your Future By Drawing It??

2012-01-30T00:00:00.000-08:00

This is a great clip about how you can take just "three bold steps" to change your future. You can most certainly apply this to your relationships, but no matter where you apply it in your life it can transform any and all of your relationships.

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Sometimes You Need Slow Love Making

2012-01-29T00:00:00.000-08:00

Making love to each other is a wonderful experience. However, a little variety goes a long way in spicing things up over time. One approach is to slow down and drag out your lovemaking for a long time. Go into it tonight with the mindset of making it last as long as possible. Slow down in every part of your love making. Take your time with the foreplay and continue that pace for the duration of your session. This can be a little tricky as it starts to heat up. Resist the desire to speed up as long as you can. Sure, slow love making isn't always what you want or need, but every once in a while it can be a wonderful change.

Get this for Valentines Day

2012-01-28T23:00:00.000-08:00

Here is the best gift you can give your partner this Valentines Day. Heart Shaped Box is a great short ebook that will give you a wonderful way to communicate your desires to each other.

Heart Shaped Box is available in the below formats just click your desired method.

iTunes

Amazon Kindle

Barnes & Noble Nook

The Days We Thrive & The One's We Survive

2012-01-28T00:00:00.000-08:00

Janelle was recently a guest on the It's About You radio show. The topic was The Days We Thrive and The One's We Survive. This was just before the holidays and that was the point, but this is true for many occasions in our lives. Janelle shared tips on thriving and surviving! Listen to the show today.

Every Dog Needs to Keep Up On Their Looks

2012-01-27T00:00:00.000-08:00

Some of us lose sight of keeping ourselves up when we are in a stable relationship. We let ourselves go because we feel comfortable with our love. However, this cannot become an excuse. You still need to take care of yourself. These comfortable feelings start to creep into the clothes we wear and our manners. When we first started dating we would never dream of burping or farting in front of our date. So, why does it become okay after we have been together for a certain amount of time. Sure things happen and sometimes it slips, but to purposely let out a burp at the dinner table could get your partner wondering, "Who is this person?" Now, I know your partner is going to see you at your worst, like right when you get up in the morning or when you are sick. However, that shouldn't be the way he/she sees you all the time - sloppy and unkept. Take pride in your appearance and keep trying to impress the one you love.

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An Empty Pocket Can Be Filled with Love!

2012-01-26T00:00:00.000-08:00

All relationships are vital and have an empact! We can change others lives no matter how little we believe we have. Take a few minutes out of your busy day and watch this powerful, heart-touching clip.

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Notice the Little Sexy Things

2012-01-25T00:00:00.000-08:00

Sexy images of your partner are all around just keep your eyes open.

Sexy doesn't have to be a huge production filled with lingerie, passionate kissing and sexy looks. It can be found everywhere you look. Keep your eyes open and notice all the little things that make your partner look sexy. Watch your partners muscles flex as he pulls the trash out of the container or watch as your partner slips into her underwear for the day. These simple sexy visions of your partner can add up and build your desire for your partner in a wonderful way. Watch how your partner interacts with your children or the way he/she moves while cooking dinner. Slip a peek now and then when he/she is working out or coming out of the shower wet and sexy. Build a little memory bank of all these visions of your partner then use them when you the two of you are alone and are able to touch all those sexy parts you have witnessed during the day.

Your Nature - Wayne Dyer Quote

2012-01-24T00:00:00.000-08:00

"Pursing status stops the natural flow of Divine Energy to your independent mind...What's [your] own nature if [you] have no outside forces telling [you] who or what [you] should be?"

--Dr. Wayne Dyer, Change Your Thoughts, Change Your Life

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Love is The Ultimate Law

2012-01-23T00:00:00.000-08:00

"Everything starts with love, remember; love is the ultimate law. Then prayer, mercy, grace, follow of their own accord."

-OSHO-

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Have a Cup of Hot Cocoa :)

2012-01-22T00:00:00.000-08:00

I am sitting here writing this post and I notice my toes are cold. Maybe it is time for a nice cup of hot cocoa. Yep, that sounds mmmmm....mmmmm..good. Well, I am off to make a cup.

Ah, the simply pleasures in life.

Do you wanna cup? Go enjoy one :)

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Slumber Party in Your Relationship

2012-01-21T00:00:00.000-08:00

Okay most of us have been to a slumber party. The amazing thing about all the ones that I have been to is that there is NO slumber going on there. The idea of the slumber party is to stay up as late as you can.

Why not bring this into your relationship? Think about it - who better to spend a evening staying up late with than your partner? Set it up with snacks and fun things to do. Some fun things you can do are play twister (that could get some giggles) or bring your laptop into your bed and watch a movie or some funny video clips on YouTube. You could play a game or ask each other deep and meaningful questions late into the night.

Just have fun together and enjoy that wonderful relationships can have the element of friendship in them, too.

Secret Agent Working For You??

2012-01-20T00:00:00.000-08:00

Wouldn't it be fascinating if we had a secret agent working on our behalf? He/she could seek out the best opportunities for us - the best jobs, the best parking spaces, the best times, the best restaurants, the best clients, the best relationships, the best pets, the best books, and on and on ....

Ah, they could also help us make the best choices in how we react, in what we say, in what we choose to feel. They could change our lives! It would be sooo amazing!

WAIT!! WIAT!! We do have this!

Who? Where?

We usually call them spirit guides, angels and even God. I believe this role is mainly held by spirit guides as angels help step in to protect us or save us. But, our spirit guides, when we welcome them and connect with them, offer us amazing insight and guidance. It may not always be crystal clear, but it is there if we become more aware and develop our relationship with our guides.

Rob and I recently talked a bit about a spirit guide, Kale, that we have as a couple on our radio show, The Relationship Guides, during part 1 of 2012 Shift for Couples. Listen to that show archived on Blogtalkradio or download it free from iTunes.

With light and love,
Janelle

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Why Are You Waiting?

2012-01-19T00:00:00.000-08:00

Are you waiting for something? Maybe it is the right opportunity to leave your job or the the right time to take that special trip with the one you love. The problem is we spend most of our time waiting for the right time. Then after we get so old we look back and say, "Man I wish I would have done that 15 years ago."

There is no time like the present to do the things you want to do. Money might be an issue, but if you really put your mind to it you can find a way to save for these things you are waiting for. Maybe you sell some of the junk you are keeping in your basement or you work a couple of hours of overtime once a week. These little sums of money can add up very quickly if you set them aside for what you are waiting on. The reward will quickly be in your sight.

So, stop wishing and start the process of taking that dream vacation with your lover or whatever it is. There is no time like the present to start working towards it.

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Everything Can Be Spiritual

2012-01-18T00:00:00.000-08:00

Mmmm...feeling thankful for the washer and dryer...apologetic to the clothes for leaving them in the washer yesterday and now having to rewash them. The dryer is oh so patiently waiting for me to move those clothes from the washer to its warm interior :) I put it on my list of things to do to.

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Soda Police

2012-01-17T00:00:00.000-08:00

Okay, one of my biggest things I need to change is drinking soda. We all know it is not good for us and yet we continue to drink it. You can team up with your partner to decrease the amount of soda you drink. Make a pact with each other to control the amount of soda you and your partner drink. Become the Soda Police and keep a tight eye on how much soda you consume. If you drink different kinds of soda, let the other person hide your soda. If you can find it, then you can have some. Of course, you can always ask for a can. At least when it is out of sight you will be less likely to drink it.

Set a limit to the number of sodas you can have a day and both of you stick to it. Find other items to drink while the soda police has your soda in custody. Water, juice (100% - no refined sugars added), and some teas are better options. Eventually, you will find yourself feeling better once you get over the hump of "needing" soda.

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Love, Sex, & Magick

2012-01-16T00:00:00.000-08:00

This is a great book. We highly recommend it.

Check it out here.

"Rather than being only a physical or mechanical experience making love with someone can extend into the spiritual depth that awakens when you merge with the soul of the other person." - Sirona Knight

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Blindfolds Can Add Excitement to Simple Things

2012-01-15T00:00:00.000-08:00

Introducing a blindfold into your love live can be a wonderful experience. It will change your whole perspective on the most normal activities. A simple kiss changes as you are unable to see what is happening. You rely more on your sense of touch to enjoy the feeling. You can use the blindfold in many ways. Take turns blindfolding each other and feeding different foods to one another. See how different the tastes are when you cannot see them. Then put the blindfold on and massage each other focusing on the feeling instead of the visual might just let you enjoy the massage even more. Finally, bring the blindfold into your intimate play and enjoy the sensations that are created when you focus on your other senses during foreplay and while making love.

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Play It Baby!

2012-01-14T00:00:00.000-08:00

Okay - it is the weekend and many of you may be cleaning house. That boring old chore that few of us enjoy. Instead of drudging your way through it, make it an exciting event. Crank up some of your favorite songs and have a jam session as you mop and dust your way to tidiness. Your laundry will get done so much quicker and the dishes will be washed and put away before you know it.

Take it a step further and try one of the following:

Download only new music you have never heard before.
Download some of you old favorites you haven't listened to in a long time.
Get your partner and/or kids involved...everybody picks some music and sings along.
Combine this cleaning session with you workout and you will accomplish even more than expected!

Change things up....that is one of the great things in life. We can choose to change things and make them different.

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National Shower Together Day!

2012-01-13T00:00:00.000-08:00

National Shower Together day!

No, this is not an actual holiday. However, today we are declaring it to be National Shower Together Day. When was the last time the two of you just jumped in the shower at the same time and enjoyed each other's naked bodies? This is not your normal shower. So, save it for the end of the day. You shouldn't feel rushed. The focus should be on just being together and enjoying each other. Be present and wet and let the troubles of the day wash down the drain. That my friends is what National Shower Together Day is all about.

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A Must See - The Power of Vulnerability

2012-01-12T00:00:00.000-08:00

I cannot tell you how valuable this clip is. The power of vulnerability is one of the things that I talk about often and teach others to understand. In fact, it is even one module within my Collaborate With Your Soul eBook. Therefore, Brene Brown's speech deeply reasonates with me. Take the time to watch it - it is worth it.

With love,
Janelle

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The Eyes Can Tell So Much

2012-01-11T00:00:00.000-08:00

When is the last time you looked deep into your partner's eyes? The eyes can tell you so much. They can be full of passion or pain, but we seldom look deep into them. Today I want you to do something a little different. Sit across from your lover and for about 5 minutes just stare into each other's eyes. See what happens. Actually, I suggest looking directly into your partner's eyes at least once per day. It is hard to hide emotions when the focus is put upon the eyes. Try this exercise and see what you think, it is powerful for lovers.

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Beautiful - Change Your Words, Change Your World!

2012-01-10T00:00:00.000-08:00

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A Little Nibble Can Be Exciting

2012-01-09T00:00:00.000-08:00

When was the last time you nibbled on your partner? Where would your partner loved to be nibbled on? Sure we discourage biting in our toddlers, but it can be an exciting addition to your lovemaking. I am not talking Mike Tyson and biting the ear off, but a little teeth in your kisses can be as sexy as you can get. Try it tonight and bite your partner on the ear or bite his/her lip a little as you kiss. See what the reaction is. Usually it will start a little more physical lovemaking and who isn't up for that?

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Create The Unexpected

2012-01-08T00:00:00.000-08:00

Create something different. Take a little from here and a little from there. Blend it together and see what begins to develop. You can always add a little more of this or that...you have the power to create what you want. You choose whether or not to mix in the old or the new. You make the choice what you add to the mix. You (along with your partner) create the blended spirit.

What are you going to choose to bring into your relationship? What are you going to choose to leave along the edges? What will you choose to leave behind completely? Together through conscious choice you can create a relationship that is a beautiful masterpiece.

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Resolutions - Are You Kidding Me?

2012-01-07T00:00:00.000-08:00

New Year's Resolutions are hard to keep, but sometimes they are even harder to start. So get out there and get started. Plus put some more love into your relationship starting today. The biggest support for your resolutions will most likely come from your partner.

Singing Bowl - Healing of Sound

2012-01-06T00:00:00.000-08:00

Sounds can bring you healing and levels of relaxation that you may never have considered before. It may be putting on some of your favorite music and dancing around the house or listening to it while you drive. But, today I am sharing a little different practice.

This is just a quick and easy exercise that you can do to gain a sense of calmness and serenity - it may last for a few minutes or this relaxed state may stay with you all day.

Using a singing bowl, as pictured above, tap the rim of it with the mallet. You may also run the mallet along the rim of the bowl as well. Allow this beautiful tone to penetrate you. Close your eyes and focus only on the sound. Continue to focus on the sound as you breathe in deeply and exhale slowly. Listen until you absolutely can no longer hear the sound. Repeat this if you wish.

This will only take a couple of minutes, but it can transform your entire day.

Blessings to you filled with light and love dear ones~

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NEW - Daily Tips on Radio Show!!!!!

2012-01-05T06:50:00.000-08:00

Check it out! We are excited to announce that we just started sharing four daily tips on our radio show, The Relationship Guides. These are quick 15 minute shows!!

On Mondays, Tuesdays, Thursdays and Fridays, we will elaborate on our blog post from the Couples' Spot. Most often we will discuss the post from that day in more depth. Occasionally, we may talk about a different post - but we will share the link with you :)

Our regular full-blown hour-long show is still on Wednesdays at 10 PM EST (or can be listened to archived at Blogtalkradio or on iTunes). You can subscribe for FREE on iTunes and never miss a show or you can follow us on Blogtalkradio to be reminded of shows via email.

Join our Facebook fanpage for the radio show too -- https://www.facebook.com/therelationshipguides

Listen to today's 1st show and let us know what you think. We are here for YOU!

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Do Something Naked Together Today

2012-01-05T00:00:00.000-08:00

The Love is... comic strip has the couple always naked together having fun.

As relationships go it seems like the only time couples are naked together is when they are about to make love. Most of the time the fear of being naked with each other is because of body image. Well I am going to challenge all you couples out there to do something together today totally naked. It doesn't have to be anything special - just get naked and be together. Maybe you could cook dinner naked together or watch a movie naked and snuggling. Just take some time to enjoy each other with nothing between the two of you. Later on, if you like, you can take it to a more intimate level. But, for now just enjoy each other in your truest form.

If you have children, this might be a little harder. If nothing else, just retire to your room, lock the door, strip down and read together. Maybe you could work a crossword puzzle lying in your bed naked. I don't want any excuses, drop the clothes and get naked together.

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What in God's Name is the Dog Doing?

2012-01-04T00:00:00.000-08:00

Even the dog is making changes!

How did this happen?!! Is he contacting other dogs? Is he donating dog food to a shelter? Or is he studying up on galactic changes? Oh my God, maybe he is reading about other beings - those from other dimensions, those from Spirit. Of course, it is also possible that he is just checking your facebook page wondering why on Earth you posted a picture of him in that silly elf costume from Christmas....your slippers are history ;)

This is a new year - it happens every 12 months. So, what is the big deal? It is a common experience to feel the need to make changes come January every year. We look back and see things we didn't like or that we weren't successful at during the past year with the realization that yes, an entire year has passed. Then we decide to do things differently. But, how long do most of us stick to our new plan? Maybe it lasts a few weeks or maybe even through spring.

This year there is more emphasis on change and transformation because the Mayan calendar has had a lot of attention. Well, changes are not going to just magically occur this year or in December of this year. These changes have already been slowly taking place and they will only truly take affect for you if you consciously choose to transform your life.

So, what are you waiting for? With focused attention and intention you can learn to love yourself, have compassion for yourself, uncover your vulnerabilities, awaken to your Soul and transform not only your life, but the lives of those around you (everyone - friends, family, your lover, pets, neighbors, plants, etc.). Sometimes you just need a little guidance.

Don't wait any longer - the dog isn't!

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Give Up The Fight To Be Right!

2012-01-03T00:00:00.000-08:00

Daddy's Home by Tony Rubino and Gary Markstein

One of the most important things we can do for our relationship is give up the need to be right. If we refuse to accept that there has to be a winner and loser to every disagreement then we open the door to a more compassionate and loving relationship. Accept that you both might have different opinions and that it is okay. I actually think it makes the relationship better when you have differences in opinions. So the next time you find the two of you fighting over who is right and who is wrong, step out of the moment and realize it doesn't matter, accept it.

Caregivers Must Care For Themselves Too!!

2012-01-02T00:00:00.000-08:00

Do you take care of someone - a child, an elderly parent, a sibling, your spouse? It can be quite draining. Check out my article in regards to this. When we care for others we must remember to take care of ourselves or will be no good to anyone.

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The Couples Spot 1000th Post!

2012-01-01T00:00:00.000-08:00

Funny how this post the first one of the New Year of 2012 works out to be our 1000th. It as been a wonderful journey of transformation. When I started The Couples Spot 1000 post ago I thought to myself this is going to be a challenge to make a post every day. Well the amazing part is that with each post I seem to get ideas about more and more posts. So the ideas have not stopped coming and they are actually Branching out.

Not only has The Couples Spot evolved but I have grown tremendously during this time. My spirituality has had a huge impact on my life. The formation of our parent company Inward Oasis and the products we are producing like Sexy Challenges, Intimate Adventures, The Relationship Guides Radio Show, Conversations Hit the Road our podcast and the many books and information we are putting out to you wonderful people out there is an amazing feeling. To know that so many people have visited The Couples Spot is an honor to me. I appreciate each and every one of you.

The even more beautiful part of this is when my wonderful and beautiful partner came on board at The Couples Spot. We now share this wonderful place that has become a part of us. No longer is this just a blog it is a gift we give to so many out there. Our goal is to make relationships happier and healthier and to help those couples that are ready find their Blended Spirit.

It has been a wonderful and exciting journey so far and I can't wait to see what happens within the next 1000 posts. We are glad you are here with us, you are beautiful.

Peace and Love,

Rob and Janelle

Happy New Year!

2011-12-31T00:00:00.000-08:00

Happy New Year

Enjoy the Fireworks.

Peace and Love to Everyone!

A Fascinating Conversation

2011-12-30T00:00:00.000-08:00

What is our nature of existence?

There are as many paths and natures as there are souls.

What if two souls are on the same path, is there a path empty somewhere?

No. Two souls can not take the exact same path. It may be very similar and headed for the same destination, but the journey will be different even if they meet along the way and share part of the journey.

This could be a deep discussion. We would love for you to share your thoughts. All comments are appreciated.

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Getting Ready for your New Year as a Couple

2011-12-29T00:00:00.000-08:00

New Years Eve is a specific event that is designed for couples. From the kiss at midnight to ringing in a new beginning and those resolutions. People plan their New Years Eve Celebrations sometimes years in advance to make sure they get to the party or place they want to be. However if you haven't made plans by now you are going to have to wing it. Make your own party, invite friends over, play games such as trivial pursuit or question games. Being with other couples on New Years can form friendships that will last a long time. However maybe you want to have a more intimate setting and ring in the New Years with just the two of you. Find a quite spot for the special kiss or spend it snuggled down together staying warm watching the stars. The choice is yours and I am sure you will pick the one that best suites your relationship.

Osho - Lovemaking is a Sacred Experience

2011-12-28T00:00:00.000-08:00

Snuggle Up Football Bowl Games are Here

2011-12-27T00:00:00.000-08:00

This is the time of year to snuggle up on the couch and watch your favorite college football team. Bowl time is here and all the best football teams are still playing. With a wide variety of choices you and your beloved can watch some stellar athletes compete for championships where their is no money involved for the players. Just a desire and a will to win. Get some snacks and a comfy spot to snuggle down and cheer for your team or the underdog.

The JOY in Dear Friends

2011-12-26T00:00:00.000-08:00

A very dear friend of mine shared these words a few months ago with me.

"The less stuff we put between our hearts and our true work, the better."
--Joy Riach--

Are you sharing your love with the world? Are you following your heart? Are you loving yourself? Are you listening to and finding the beauty in what those around you say?

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Merry Christmas to All

2011-12-25T00:00:00.000-08:00

Merry Christmas to All

and to All a good life

Rob and Janelle would love to wish you a Merry Christmas from all our endeavours.

Santa's Helpers ;)

2011-12-24T00:00:00.000-08:00

Well, it is Christmas Eve. If you don't celebrate Christmas, then this post just might not be for you :)

Tonight is a great time to share a special night with your beloved. You can exchange "special" gifts with each other tonight. If you have kids, you will obviously have to wait until they are in bed and you have taken care of Santa's work. But -- afterward, you can take some time to intimately play at being elves ;0)

Is role playing and dressing up usually not a part of what you do? Tonight is a great opportunity to try it out or at least add it in just for the occasion.

Enjoy your Christmas everyone!!

Christmas Eve Eve??

2011-12-23T00:00:00.000-08:00

Christmas Eve Eve. This day is the final day to relax before the festivities begin. Sure Christmas Eve is not an actual holiday but so many people start their Christmas on this day. Going to relatives houses or friends then to spend Christmas with their immediate family. So that makes this the last day to relax before Christmas hits. Take time to spend it with your beloved. Get a bottle of wine, or just sit and snuggle up and watch it snow. Make this your special time together and make it last as long as possible. Sit up late into the night talking and remembering holidays past. This might just be the best part of your holiday season.

Opening To New Relationship Guidance Clients

2011-12-22T00:00:00.000-08:00

Share Your Joy With The World

2011-12-21T00:00:00.000-08:00

We spend so much time decorating the inside of our house and maybe even the outside of our house. Is that decorating for us or enjoyment of others. If your like me most of that decorating is for my family and myself. Here is a little thing the two of you can do this holiday to spread cheer into your neighborhood. Take some decorations and decorate something in your neighborhood that many will see. Do a telephone pole or a tree in your park heck you could even decorate up and down your sidewalk. Get permission from the proper authorities before you start and just tell them you want to spread Christmas Cheer throughout the neighborhood and unless it causes a safety issue I don't see why they would say no!.

Other ideas might be to decorate a vacant house, or a tree of someone who can't get out and do it by themself. You might even do it at a local playground or at a shopping center. Use your imagination and spread your holiday spirit around the world.

"I'll be able to hold her heart...I don't need hands..."

2011-12-20T00:00:00.000-08:00

This is a MUST SEE video!! It will warm your heart and bring a loving tear to you eye!

Helping Hands Are a Great Gift Idea

2011-12-19T00:00:00.000-08:00

You can give so many gifts and spend a lot of money on the holidays this year. However some of the best gifts you can give don't cost a thing. Volunteering and giving a helping hand can be one of the most rewarding things you can do. Go help out at a soup kitchen or help someone fix their home that is in desperate need of repair. You can even deliver meals to those that can't get out of their house. When you do this as a couple you really form a bound that is special for the two of you. This holiday look for a way the two of you can help out those less fortunate than you and give that gift.

Did I Just Get a Cheeseburger?? I Only Order TEA!

2011-12-18T00:00:00.000-08:00

It is true that we can get so wrapped up in other things that we don't even notice what we are eating or for that matter what the waiter or counter person even gives us. Below I am reposting a brief post I wrote a while back about a good friend of mine who experienced this quite to her surprise :)

Sometimes we are just plain mindless! We get so wrapped up in other things in our minds that we go on autopilot. What happened at the office? What are we having for dinner tonight? What do I still need to pick up at the store? I wonder what homework the kids will have? What time do they have guitar practice and cheer practice again? Oh, shoot, I didn't pick up little Joey's guitar from home!

Today I was visiting with a friend when she shared just such a moment with me. She stops every day and gets an iced tea from a local drive through. Yesterday she pulled away and thought to herself, "Oops, they didn't give me a straw." She had extras in the car so it wasn't an issue. In a couple of minutes she thought, "Why does my car smell like food?" With her extra straw in the cup she took a sip only to be surprised that it was soda and not tea. Then she looked over in the passenger seat and saw a bag of food from the restaurant. She was amazed that she could have been so zoned out and on serious autopilot that she took the bag of food from the drive through employee without even noticing.

It makes for a good laugh later, but it can also be a good wake up. Being mindful in our daily lives is not always easy, but we miss so much when we allow ourselves to become mindless instead :) And, you know as well as I do that we all fall into the mindless category at times. The key is try to be mindful more than mindless.

Photo by Aranami

Using Candle Light as Sexy Decoration

2011-12-17T00:00:00.000-08:00

Before the technology of electric lights became available, people use to decorate for Christmas with candles. We know there is a safety factor that comes with candles that most of us don't want to have to worry about. However their is something romantic about candle light and the flicker it gives off. It changes the whole mood of the room. Companies have figured this out and have created flameless candles where the light is soft and flickers like that of a candle. So know you can have the best of both worlds. There is nothing like the flicker of soft candle light that is safe. I feel sexier already.

One Constant is Change!

2011-12-16T00:00:00.000-08:00

We share with you every day about couples. This youtube clip is to remind (or teach) you that everything changes. That is the one true constant in this world - impermanence. Change in our individual lives, change in our relationships, change in the world beyond.

Sexy Challenges Brings the Holiday Cheer

2011-12-15T00:00:00.000-08:00

Sexy Challenges does it again with a great new addition to it line of great scenarios for couples. OOOOhhhh! Christmas Tree will have you celebrating the holidays in a new and exciting way. Not only will this issue improve your holiday spirit but it will start you improving the intimacy in your relationship. However don't stop there Sexy Challenges has several other issues to help out in your intimate life. Click the link below and check out the selection for the Amazon Kindle, Barnes & Noble Nook, and on iTune as well as a print version.

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Spirituality, God & Science

2011-12-14T00:00:00.000-08:00

Brian Setzer a Great Christmas Musician

2011-12-13T00:00:00.000-08:00

Brian Setzer is one of my very favorite artists to listen to at Christmas time. He breaks away from the soft and mellow sounds of normal Christmas Carols and rocks out with them. One of my all time favorites is his duet with Ann Margret on Baby it's Cold Outside. Play a copy of that to get things heated up during the holiday season.

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For God's Sake Don't Do That!!

2011-12-12T00:00:00.000-08:00

Have you ever encountered people who want to rush off to another country because "those poor people don't know who God is!"? They want to go on "missions" to "save those poor people!" Really!!!!! Usually I am a person filled with love, compassion, and respect for others, but when people believe their way is the only way and that all others will perish if not saved, I feel a bile rise in my throat.

How is it that people can believe themselves to be loving, non-judgemental, and spreading (their) God's "word" when they believe that others must follow their religion or else. They believe that their "God", their "religion" is the only way. These are the people that I truly feel sad for -- not the native peoples of those foreign countries that "don't know Christianity's God" or so many others who have different traditions and follow different religions.

The important thing is to feel a connection to your spirituality - however that works for you!!! We are spiritual beings having a human experience. The Divine presence, the Universe, God, the Supreme Being, the collective unconscious, the Higher Power, etc. does not punish. It/he/she/they are PURE LOVE....which includes the beauty of our world and nature's magnificent power - yes, that includes tsunamis too. We still feel sadness for those who suffer and we should most certainly be there for them and help them, but don't blame God or Mother Nature or anything else. This is life....live it, experience it, learn from it, and open your heart to your spiritual connection. There are as many paths to enlightenment, nirvana, Home, Heaven, etc. as their are souls.

Smile today and feel the love of All and for All!

Photo by ShashiBellamkonda

Confetti Kisses Gives You Two Ways To Connect

2011-12-11T00:00:00.000-08:00

The Sexy Challenge Confetti Kisses comes with a special bonus Sexy Challenge, Message in a Bottle. Take some time from you holiday shopping to spend a few moments with your lover.

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EXCITING! 6 Unique Holiday Gift Ideas for Your Partner

2011-12-10T07:09:00.001-08:00

EXCITING NEWS!!!!!

We have an article on yourtango.com that was posted to their homepage and their experts' homepage!

6 Unique Holiday Gift Ideas for Your Partner

Check it out!!!

Old Shows

2011-12-09T04:24:00.000-08:00

A great and fun thing to do late at night is to watch a show you did many years ago, a classic. You can find many movies but I am talking about a normal television show. You can get many of them on dvd or on digital download now. The beauty of it is NO COMMERCIAL, that is one of the reasons I don't watch television now. We recently began watching old episodes of Seinfeld and have been laughing at all the wonderful characters in this sitcom. Maybe Seinfeld isn't your bag but there are plenty of wonderful entertaining shows out there. Pick something and watch a show here or there, without the commercials the shows are a lot shorter and easier to watch. Now I am going to watch Kramer slide into Jerry's apartment.

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A Friend's Love

2011-12-08T00:00:00.000-08:00

A Friend’s Love

The rain drops

Plop, plop, plop

The fire sizzles and hisses

With each drop of rain

The wind blows

Breathing life into the fire

My foot stamps frantically

Trying to put it out

Suddenly a friend

Touches my shoulder

And stands in the fire

By my side, smiling

No longer is there need

To stamp out the fire

Its life energy is a teacher

And, I, the student

Walk through the fire

Whether in darkness

Or brilliance

Be in awe of the flame

The smoke may thicken

My destination be obscured

If I am too afraid

I know I can reach for my friend’s hand

Exiting the fire

Relief washes my body

Until I see all around me

Infinite fires – big and small

With a smile

And an open heart

I look for my dear friend

Only to see now he walks through fire

The tides have turned

The moon is new

The leaves have fallen

The season has changed

With love and compassion

I enter the fire

And touch my dear friend’s shoulder

It is my turn, to gently hold space

--Janelle Alex

Lovers Quote

2011-12-07T00:00:00.000-08:00

"The best relationships are like extra blankets on the bed, they keep you warm in cold times."

-Rob Alex-

Just Lie Down - Get Grounded

2011-12-06T00:00:00.001-08:00

We all need to feel grounded and centred. We all too easily can lose our balance. It is not possible to constantly stay perfectly balanced, but here is a simple way to regain some of your balance. Find five minutes in your schedule (or one or two if that is all you can spare) and lie flat on your back with your arms at your sides. And, just breathe ... in and out...take your time with each breath. Doing this throughout your day can have amazing changes upon your body and within your soul.

Photo from Creative Commons by Marc from Boft

Great Time of Year for Singing

2011-12-05T01:00:00.000-08:00

One of the best things about the holiday season is the singing. Christmas carols are a great way that people come together and sing. However if you don't celebrate Christmas that doesn't mean you have to shy away from enjoying the singing during this time of year. Find songs that fit your lifestyle and let sing them out loud. Go out and go caroling it is a great way for friends to get together and spread joy and peace in your neighborhood.

A Quote from Dr. Wayne Dyer

2011-12-04T00:00:00.000-08:00

“I cannot always control what goes on outside. But I can always control what goes on inside.” - Dr. Wayne Dyer

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Hang Some Mistletoe Over Your Bed

2011-12-03T00:30:00.000-08:00

Want a great way to start your holiday season out? A simple idea is to hang some mistletoe over your bed. Now you have a symbolic reason to kiss each time you meet in your bed. Who knows this might even spark more joyful occasions during the holiday.

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Sacred Healing on iTunes!

2011-12-02T00:00:00.000-08:00

We recently put this Intimate Adventure: Sacred Ceremony for Couples up on iTunes for FREE. This is a perfect Intimate Adventure to start with. If you haven't checked these out, we highly recommend them. They truly can transform your relationship and your life. Within just a couple of days of this one being uploaded to iTunes it climbed to #3 under Health, Mind & Body: Spirituality. We are in awe.

This ceremony is a beautiful way to release worries or troubles in or around your relationship. But, in conversation with a dear group of my friends in regards to the horrible happenings at Penn State the realization came to me that this ceremony can be used to focus healing on others - even those we don't personally know. The events at Penn State are heart-wrenching. How can we help? Well, we can send light and love and we can do this ceremony for sacred healing of the victims as well as the accused. Those at fault obviously have very serious mental/emotional/spiritual health issues or they would not have committed such acts. So, I ask you to remember that we can not only heal ourselves, but others by focusing our prayers and healing ceremonies toward them.

Light and love to all of you!

Less Cereal, More Money, & Less Weight

2011-12-01T00:00:00.000-08:00

Cereal is a staple of our society here in America. However it can also help change things in your life. Check out this video and see what cereal can do for you!

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Remember to Breathe

2011-11-30T00:00:00.000-08:00

Life can be stressful. Many things may come at you seemingly all at once. It is of utmost importance that you remember to breathe. By taking a few deep breaths you can release much of your stress and find some calm. Your body will appreciate the extra oxygen.

Sometimes it just seems that there is so much piling up that it is hard to keep your head above water. When that happens strap on an air tank and take the dive...don't fear it. But, you must remember to breathe!! And, when your head is underwater you must learn how to breathe...with pressure pushing down on you breathing is not natural at first. Trust yourself to learn how. You can do it. And, you can actually enjoy it and see all the beauty under the water...through the stress...just breathe!

Photo by Gina Smith

Decorate Your Love For Christmas

2011-11-29T04:16:00.000-08:00

Okay if you celebrate Christmas or not this is the time of year you can really decorate your love for the holidays. How you might ask can you decorate your love? Well there are so many different things you can do around this time of year. For starters you can make a date out of shopping, instead of the entire focus being on rushing around, show down and experience this time with your beloved. Next decorate you bedroom for the holiday. Blinking lights and ornaments shouldn't just stay in the living areas of your house. This will automatically add a little change to your bedroom activities. Most important way to decorate your love for the holidays is to slow down and enjoy what is really important at this time of year, the ones you love. Make cookies, go caroling, or take a sleigh ride create some wonderful memories and try to out do this each and every year.

In the Midst of Chaos Be Present

2011-11-28T00:00:00.000-08:00

You are running here and there, the phone is ringing, your list of errands is growing, the dog is barking and begging to go for a walk, your teenager is playing the drums, and you can't find your car keys.

STOP!! Are you being present? Or, are you just running around like a chicken with its head cut off? Take a breath and be in the moment. Answer the phone if you can, pat the dog and in a soothing voice tell him you will take him out soon, listen for a moment to what your teenager is playing, and your car keys will show up soon enough. And, if your youngest comes to stand in front of you covered in paint, take a good look at the beauty of the "artwork".

You and only you can choose how to react to events in your life. A dear friend recently shared a quote with me, "You own your emotions, your emotions do not own you." So, take control :)

Photos by: Maya Kruchancova & Christophe Ursitti

Time To Break Out the Christmas Music

2011-11-27T04:08:00.000-08:00

Brian Setzer is one of my favorite Christmas Musicians

If you are like me one of the favorite parts of Christmas is the music. You get to break out the wonderful sounds that you only get to listen to for about a month. This music is most likely very different from what you listen to the rest of the year. It is comfort music and creates the feeling of Christmas. It can take you both back to your childhood as you listen and remember those wonderful days of the past. Take some time this year and just plop down on the couch you and your beloved and spend a few hours taking in these wonderful songs of Christmas it is a beautiful part of the holidays. If you have children get them involved and discuss everyones favorite Christmas song and why it is their favorite. If you don't celebrate Christmas that is okay do this with other music you listen to and just let the soothing music take you to a different place.

Jump & Shout

2011-11-26T00:00:00.000-08:00

Don't hold it in. When you feel excitement, joy, happiness, playfulness let it out. Let others share in your delight. It just might brighten their day too!!

Photo by Christophe Schmid

Black Friday is it Worth it?

2011-11-25T04:01:00.000-08:00

Black Friday Crowd, or Lynch Mob?

Black Friday has become a tradition for many people. Getting up early on this day and trudging out to fight crowds for specially priced items with limited numbers. Marked as the start of the Christmas purchasing season Black Friday can be a nightmare for some. With the limited number of items many stores have, and the overwhelming crowds Black Friday can be frustrating and harmful to your health. My suggestion if you are going to experience Black Friday is not to take it to serious, use it as a time to connect with the family and friends you go shopping with. Understand that you might not get the items you are looking for, know that people will be rude and pushy. My suggestion is to go into Black Friday to start spreading Christmas cheer and joy. Maybe if everyone did this on Black Friday they might have to change the name of it.

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Spice Up Your Gift Giving!

2011-11-25T00:00:00.000-08:00

Osho on Sex and Death as Taboos

2011-11-24T00:00:00.000-08:00

What about the Native Americans? They Made Thanksgiving Sexy, TOO.

2011-11-23T03:49:00.000-08:00

Gratitude with Attitude.

Okay okay I made a boo boo in a recent post about Sexy Pilgrims and forgot to mention the Native Americans. It was a combined effort to produce this Holiday. Native Americans are sexy because of their connection with the environment. We can still learn a lot today from the Native Americans and their respect for the land. Another important part of Native American heritage is how well they treated each other. Within the tribe each and every person had their place in the village. Love was an important part of the life of the Native Americans. They were passionate and natural lovers. They protected those they loved with everything they had and yet were so giving to others. This is the force behind Thanksgiving, it would have been easy for the Native Americans to turn their backs on the Pilgrims and let them starve to death. Instead they help these people that needed it, should we not all take this lesson form the Native Americans.

Win $100

2011-11-22T15:00:00.000-08:00

WIN $100

Joyful Couples Contest

This book is about sharing with others. It is about sharing a quick story, special moment in your relationship or a quick tip on how you keep your relationship alive. It is great fun to fill out a couple pages of your own story and then add other couples' stories/tips. You can write their stories or have them write it in. It is a great book as a wedding gift, anniversary gift or shower gift! And, right now it could win you a $100 gift card to Amazon.

Rules: Simply get your copy (only pay $.01 plus shipping & handling), fill it with your story and the stories of others (family, friends, co-workers) and mail the completed copy back to us. You have until January 15th for it to reach us. We will have a drawing (from those who returned us a completed/filled out copy of Joyful Couples) on our radio show, The Relationship Guides, on January 18, 2012. All stories or tips shared in the books will be kept confidential unless we receive permission to share them.

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TED Talk - We Have to Change NOW

2011-11-22T00:00:00.000-08:00

Are Pilgrims Sexy?

2011-11-21T03:39:00.000-08:00

Check out this Sexy Pilgrim posing.

As we fast approach Thanksgiving we start to honor a holiday based on gratitude. We start thinking about how important and appreciative we have or have not been during the year. That thought process needs to start with your lover. Do you appreciate them? Do you show them how much they mean to you, often? If not, today is the day to start making a change and show how much you love them. So, my opening question was, "Are Pilgrims Sexy?" If they get us to pay more attention to the person we love then they are DAMN SEXY! Except for those buckles on their shoes.

Your Spiritual Family

2011-11-20T00:00:00.000-08:00

For much of my life I have repeatedly wondered just where in the heck the rest of us are? I had close friends growing up, but still felt that I was missing so many others. I can’t say that I understood that, but I just knew there was more to my life and more members of my Spiritual Family out there somewhere.

I have encountered a few of those beautiful beings over the years, but in the past year I have been blessed to find so many more of my Spiritual Family. They are spread out all over the world, but the connection we share is truly beyond this human experience. Today I honor those in my life and the special expereinces I have had this past year.

When you feel that connection to someone be witness to it. The other party may or may not recognize you as well – it just depends on where he/she is on his/her journey. And, the prospect of knowing someone from Home and having shared past lifetimes is often a topic few are willing to broach.

I have come to find that most importantly I want share love and compassion with the world and when I am able to connect with my spiritual brothers and sisters I rejoice – and hopefully, they recognize me and rejoice as well.

Photo by zaphad1

Hobbies for Couples

2011-11-19T03:27:00.000-08:00

Yoga can be a great hobby for couples.

Recently I did a post on couples finding their niche. I had many emails about what hobbies are good for couples. Although I cannot tell you exactly what hobby will work for the two of you, I did find a website that can help. The website is called Hobbies for Couples, they have a lot of suggestions for couples to look over and pick from. I am so glad there are sites out there like this to help couples improve their relationships. Remember when you can find something fun to do your relationship becomes fun.

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What If the World Is Just an Illusion?

2011-11-18T00:00:00.000-08:00

Find Your Niche as a Couple

2011-11-17T03:19:00.000-08:00

All couples can benefit their relationship by finding something that they can work on or learn about together. Trust me if you both find a common interest, it can transform your relationship. Sure time apart is great. The bad part is that you usually end of doing fun stuff when you are apart. In this you start associating having fun with being apart. Well when you find something you both can get into and have fun doing or learning, you form a bond that is special. You will start making time for this activity together and start desiring this time together. The options are endless but I suggest finding a new activity both of you can get into together. This way you learn from the start together. The information will be new to both of you at the same time and what a way to connect.

Deborah Kagan - Mojo Mastery a Beautiful Vision of Life

2011-11-16T17:47:00.001-08:00

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Happiness

2011-11-16T00:00:00.000-08:00

Happiness

is more precious

than wealth;

May millions of

mercies rain on

your dancing!

-Rumi

Thanksgiving is Coming.

2011-11-15T03:30:00.000-08:00

I am thankful for leaves, my dog, that bird, the grass, and my zig zag shirt.

It is getting close to the holiday that we should be celebration everyday. We should be thankful for all we have everyday in our life. However sometimes we loose sight of that. As we muddle to Thanksgiving this year I want you to take some time each day until our feast day and think of five things you are grateful for. As you shower or get ready for the day each morning run through this list and then go over it again at the end of the night before you drift off to sleep. We all have so many things to be thankful for that we sometimes forget. Get you partner involved and trade thanksgivings with them each and every night until the Holiday. Heck you might want to keep this going all year long.

A Guided Buddhist Meditation

2011-11-14T00:00:00.000-08:00

Coupons Savings Spiritually

2011-11-13T05:46:00.000-08:00

We never thought that coupons could bring us closer. However as you watch this video you can see that saving money always helps a relationship. Heck it can even improve it if you watch until the end.

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Rain rain go away??

2011-11-12T00:00:00.000-08:00

Well, we wanted to go out and shoot a quick new video for all of you, but the fall weather had other plans. Rain, rain, rain. Big gusts of wind. Blowing leaves all over. It really made for a beautiful image, but doing a video outside was out of the question.

Sometimes, things just don't go the way we want them to. It is important to remember that it is okay. There will be another time...and, perhaps, we were really meant to work on something else on this particular day!

Whatever life throws at you - take it in, consider it, accept what you can, and learn something from it. Then, take a deep breath and leave the rest of it behind!

Photo by Alex Brown

11/11/11 a Special Day!

2011-11-11T05:00:00.000-08:00

With the interest everyone has in numbers today. 11/11/11 stands out as a special element. What it means I don't know for sure. All I know is that with 3, 11's something must be lining up to be special. I know I will be keeping my eyes open on this rare day. I personally think it is a great day to celebrate and break free from those things that are holding you back. It sounds like a good day for change to me.

Create Your Chili Recipe

2011-11-11T03:30:00.000-08:00

Everyone has their own recipe for chili. You might have gotten yours from your grandmother. Now that you are a couple it is time for you to branch out and create a chile that is one for your relationship. Take an afternoon and together discuss things you like and dislike in chili. Keep a list of the things you like and once you have exhausted all options look at your list. You now have the ingredients for your very own relationship chili. Call it what you like, use your last name such as the Alex Chili or create a romantic name for it like Love Chili. Whatever you decide this chili is made for the two of you and your family. This is the recipe you will pass down to your children and they will make until they combine with their future partner to create their own chili recipe.

We Are All Beautiful

2011-11-10T00:00:00.000-08:00

The Changing Leaves

2011-11-09T03:30:00.000-08:00

This is one of the best times of year for a walk or a drive. The leaves are turning to magnificent colors and that changes the look of the entire landscape. Now the same walk you took this summer looks like an entirely different scene. The cool crisp air feels different in your lungs as the hot humid days of summer. You can snuggle up, hold hands, and get close without getting really hot. Maybe it is because winter is just around the corner, but fall walks are some of the best. The knowing soon that the really cold temperatures are about here beckons me to venture outside with my love to enjoy the cool days. Plus the beauty of the leaves and the warmth of my partner are amazing.

The Call of Sedona - FREE Gifts!

2011-11-08T00:00:00.001-08:00

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Love Flows

2011-11-08T00:00:00.000-08:00

Love flows like a river twisting and turning

not letting anything stop it.

So beats my heart.

The Return of Flannel Sheets

2011-11-07T03:30:00.000-08:00

The cold is here, time to venture into the recesses of our houses and retrieve the wonderful flannel sheets. These magnificent bed covers are the way to survive the cold winter months. There is nothing like snuggling deep inside these sheets with your lover as the temperature starts to dip lower and lower. It is like a different world as your two bodies create a warm oasis under these flannel sheets. It is amazing how you can keep the temperature under these sheets roasting while the outside of them is cold. If you don't have flannel sheets it is a wonderful investment that you both can enjoy. If you live in a cold climate there is no choice they need to be on your bed.

Win $100 !!

2011-11-06T00:00:00.000-07:00

WIN $100

Joyful Couples Contest

Rules: Simply get your copy (only pay $.01 plus shipping &; handling), fill it with your story and the stories of others (family, friends, co-workers) and mail the completed copy back to us. You have until January 15th for it to reach us. We will have a drawing (from those who returned us a completed/filled out copy of Joyful Couples) on our radio show, The Relationship Guides, on January 18, 2012. All stories or tips shared in the books will be kept confidential unless we receive permission to share them.

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Check into a little Sex Magick

2011-11-05T03:30:00.000-07:00

What is Sex Magick? Well obviously sex can be very magical for couples. However when we throw a k onto the end of the word magic we get a way to bring good fortune to us. Many people practice this all over the world and it isn't a dark and mysterious thing some might make it out to be. I feel it is a way to honor our sacred intimacy. Here is the most simple way for the two of you to enjoy it. Simply put some intention into your next intimate encounter. Dedicated it towards finding a new job or getting the home of your dreams. Our sexual energy has amazing power and believe it or not it does work. I like to think of it as the Law of Attraction Sexy Style. Use it to manifest great things in your life. What do you have to lose? If you want to know more about Sex Magick there are numerous books on the subject. The beauty of it is you can read all you can find and then tailor it to fit your relationship. I will be a wonderful connection for the two of you.

Expanding Your Spiritual Growth

2011-11-04T00:00:00.000-07:00

There are a number of ways to expand your spiritual growth. One of those ways is to study various religions and traditions. You can start by studying the most popular traditions and faiths such as Christianity, Buddhism, Islamic, or Hinduism. But, please understand that there are a huge number of other traditions and religions. Many are branches of others, but still have different beliefs, rituals and holidays. There are as many paths to God, to the Divine, to the Great Spirit, to the Universe, to the Creator, to the collective unconscious as there are souls.

Ultimately, I believe the core factors of spirituality are loving others, caring for others, offering compassion, being true to who you are and sharing joy. Those five things can change your life, the lives of those around you and the world. If you do these things, you will undoubtedly feel your connection to spirit.

Photo by Paul Trafford

When Is The Last Time The French Invaded Your Kissing?

2011-11-03T03:30:00.000-07:00

Here is the question, when is the last time you and your partner french kissed? Can you remember, do you only do it during intimacy. Why? Can you remember the first time you french kissed each other the thrill of venturing into this delight? Well today I recommend at some point and time you french kiss each other. Pick your time wisely. Don't do it at the grocery store or for heavens sake not in front of the kids. The french kiss is more private then a normal kiss on the lips, treat it as foreplay or a snack for later activities. Sneak to the kitchen and passionately kiss each other or maybe as a welcome home. Just make time today to at least one french kiss!

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Your Inner Song

2011-11-02T00:30:00.000-07:00

Feeling creative? Feeling really happy? Feeling down? Grab a pen and paper and start writing. Focus on a theme (your child, your love, love in general, joy in the world, poverty, etc.) and let the words flow out of you. If you can play an instrument, perhaps you can write the music too. If not, don’t worry. This is just for you to let some of the things that are inside of you out. You don’t need to share this with anyone – unless you want to of course. Just let your inner self sing.

Photo by Sydney Alvares

Cut Out The Soda

2011-11-01T04:00:00.000-07:00

Did you ever think that soda could be affecting your relationship? Well it does affect your health and your health will affect your relationship. Cutting out soda from your diet can not only make you healthier but it can save you money also. I understand how hard it is to cut our soda from our diets we have grown up drinking the stuff, it tastes good to us. However it is expensive and that money could be used for other thing such as date nights, or new products for your home. We could go into all the benefits of drinking water over soda but I think we all know them. If water doesn't thrill you try some tea, tea can be a delicious alternative to soda. Just look at ti this way for every soda you don't drink you are saving about 20 cents and that is low balling. That starts adding up and could net you a nice little vacation each year and improve your health while you are avoiding it.