Saturday, July 13, 2013

60 Other F-Words...Ever Wonder What He/She Really Means?

When someone says the "f-word" you assume you know what they mean.  Right?  But, what if you don't?  Recently, I posed the question to fans and friends about what other f-words might be connected to relationships.  Here is a fun little list.  If you can come up with others, feel free to share them in the comments. 
  1. Forgive
  2. Frankly
  3. Funk
  4. Funky
  5. Frisky
  6. Female
  7. Feminine
  8. Fantastic
  9. French kiss
  10. Foreplay
  11. Facebook
  12. Fantasy
  13. Football
  14. Furry
  15. Footsie
  16. Fancy
  17. Feast
  18. Frantic
  19. Feeling
  20. Flick
  21. Frolic
  22. Flog
  23. Flip
  24. Forever
  25. Friend
  26. Fellatio
  27. Fabulous
  28. Fast food
  29. Food
  30. Folly
  31. Frivolous
  32. Fruit
  33. Fart
  34. Fudge
  35. Fuzzy
  36. Fat
  37. Fault
  38. Fish
  39. Fondle
  40. Fondu
  41. Frilly
  42. Fall
  43. Fairy (tale)
  44. Flicker
  45. Flame
  46. Flameless
  47. Flavorful
  48. Fuel
  49. Fool
  50. Fishnet
  51. Forbidden
  52. Freaky
  53. Faithful
  54. Freedom
  55. Family
  56. Fumble
  57. Father
  58. Feud
  59. Feisty
  60. Fun
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Friday, July 12, 2013

Learn A New Language

Okay lovers can improve their relationship just by changing the language they use.  This book doesn't teach you a new language, it teaches you how to speak the words of love.  Right from the start you will begin to see an improvement in your relationship.  This was one of the beginning steps to getting our relationship on track.  

Click the above link to get Speaking Kind Words.

Relationships suffer greatly when partners no longer speak kind and loving words to one another. Saying the same words over and over, day in and day out, can become common place and those once powerful words lose some of their potency. In fact, do you remember the phrase, "Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words can never hurt me?" That really isn't true. Not only can words hurt, but so can the lack of kind and loving words. Husband and wife team, Rob and Janelle Alex, share with you a method to bring back and even add new loving words to your relationship. Following the approach presented in Speaking Kind Words will improve and bring a new outlook to your relationship.

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Wednesday, July 10, 2013

Sexy Flameless Candles

Click above to check out these awesome flameless candles

Okay if you are familiar with our products and teachings from Sexy Challenges you know we mention flameless candles a lot.  We love candle light, however sometimes actual candles are not the safest thing to have around.  If there is going to be a lot of movement and activity in your bedroom (which we hope for you) then actual flameless candles can be quick scary.   So the flameless ones can be a great alternative.  The ones I have pictured above are awesome not only do they have the realistic look but they also come with a remote control so that when the time is right to extinguish the candles you don't even have to get up.  The soft glow of candle light is so sexy and now it can be safe too.

Tuesday, July 9, 2013

Sex and Your Soul!

The physical health benefits of sex are widely known.  In fact, information on the mental and emotional health benefits are commonly talked about, too.  But, what is rarely mentioned is how you can enhance your connection to your soul and to your lover’s soul through lovemaking.  Orgasmic and sexual energy opens a gateway into the spiritual dimension.

Being aware of the sensations in your body as well as any out-of-body sensations during lovemaking and/or at the point of orgasm offers you the opportunity to direct the sexual energy toward a goal.  Your goal may be any range of things from physical healing to a new job to deepening your intuition and connection to spirit.

As you likely already know, everything is made up of energy.  Making passionate love to your sweetheart draws together a plethora of powerful orgasmic energy.  It is this phenomenally influential and magickal energy that you can learn to focus towards those amazing things you are wishing to magnetize to you. 

Focusing on opening a spiritual gateway and having a goal set for your orgasmic energy doesn’t take away from your sexual experience.  In fact, it can actually deepen the bond between you and your lover and heighten your sensuality.  Instead of getting lost in just the physical pleasure, you become more fully present and open to the sacredness of your physical, emotional, mental and spiritual bond between the two of you.

Tapping into the ultimate creative source through sex within a committed loving relationship allows a spiritual channel to open.  Your creativity will be enhanced, your self-esteem and confidence will expand, you will be able to gain deeper clarity, your problem solving skills will increase, you will move beyond your current pleasure boundaries and your sex life, your emotional life and your spirituality will be stimulated.  

In these modern times, more and more people are seeking ways to expand their consciousness.  They want to connect to their souls and have better access to their intuition.  There are a vast number of spiritual practices that can help you do this – reconnecting with nature; meditating; yoga; shamanic journeying; having a session with a channeling expert, trance dancing and much more.  In ancient times, it was understood that sacred sexuality was a spiritual practice as well.  Over time, fear and disbelief have hidden this beautiful knowledge from daily life, but it is past time to remember how profound and extraordinary sacred lovemaking truly is.

You may be wondering how to access this if you are not currently in a loving, committed relationship.  Can you open that gateway alone?  Can you direct sexual energy and draw amazing things into your life by yourself?  The answer is yes.  Yet at the same time, it is important to point out that when two people are creating or drawing sexual energy together and together they focus on a specific outcome the results are exponentially more powerful.   

Whether you learn to engage in sacred sexual and magickal practices alone or together with your beloved you will activate your Divine power.  You will potentially gain access to deeper intuition, your Spirit guides, past life experiences, and healing.  You will discover a sense of joyful bliss that you can tap into whenever you want it or need it.  And, the synchronistic and serendipitous events that begin to show up in your daily life will leave you in awe and wonder.

Does this sound similar to the Law of Attraction method?  Well, they are similar, but at the same time quite different.  Learning and implementing sacred sexual and magickal practices goes much deeper than the basic concepts of the Law of Attraction.  When you are in a space in which you can blend your spirit with your lover’s and merge your sexual and orgasmic energy together the results are – well, out of this world.

The most amazing part is that you don’t have to learn special positions or special physical techniques to bring these phenomena into your life.  It is about learning to open your heart and open your soul to positive and light-filled experience.  It is about learning to connect with and then collaborate with your soul and your lover’s soul.  Anyone can learn to direct sexual energy through a variety of magickal methods.  Therefore, it doesn’t matter who you are, you have access to the Divine, to the Universe, to Spirit, to God, to the Creative Source just like everyone else.
Janelle Alex, Ph.D. & Rob Alex, M.Sc. – Co-Founders of Sexy Challenges
© 2013
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Monday, July 8, 2013

Drop Me a Line (Ways We Communicate w/Lover 5 of 8)

Remember to be discreet with your emails!
Who know who might be looking over your shoulder.

Part 5 of 8

 Email – This is not that different than texting except that this is an opportunity to write a good deal more.  In fact, this can replace the sweet handwritten love letter of a couple of decades ago.  We can add fancy artwork or pictures to our emails.  We can use different colors and fonts.  Many of us receive our email on our phones too – so we have quick and easy access to each other’s messages. 

Janelle Alex, Ph.D. Copyright 2011
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Sunday, July 7, 2013

Your Chakras Affect Your Sex Life!

We recently talked to a friend of my about the amazing impact that our chakras have on our lives.  Chakras are energy centers within our bodies if you don't know.  The sacral chakra has a major impact on our sex lives as well as numerous other areas of our life.  Listen in as we talk to Joanna Leigh Osmond and she shares her insights as well as one very simple healing meditation that you can practice.  If you aren't into meditation, this practice she shares could be considered as a quiet breathing exercise.  Very easy, quick and can leave you with a little zing. Joanna Leigh Osmond is an Intuitive Business Coach and Mentor for Women of Amazing Purpose.  She can read energy - even from a distance - and help you heal, clarify, and discover what she calls a blueprint of your light.  Learn more about her and what she offers at
Discover your sensuality and spirituality to create magick.  Go to today! Have a question you would like us to respond to?  Drop us an email at Light and love, Janelle and Rob Alex Photo credit: © twentyfree -