Saturday, January 14, 2012

Play It Baby!

Okay - it is the weekend and many of you may be cleaning house.  That boring old chore that few of us enjoy.  Instead of drudging your way through it, make it an exciting event.  Crank up some of your favorite songs and have a jam session as you mop and dust your way to tidiness.  Your laundry will get done so much quicker and the dishes will be washed and put away before you know it.

Take it a step further and try one of the following:

  1. Download only new music you have never heard before.
  2. Download some of you old favorites you haven't listened to in a long time.
  3. Get your partner and/or kids involved...everybody picks some music and sings along.
  4. Combine this cleaning session with you workout and you will accomplish even more than expected!
Change things up....that is one of the great things in life.  We can choose to change things and make them different.

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Friday, January 13, 2012

National Shower Together Day!

National Shower Together day!

No, this is not an actual holiday.  However, today we are declaring it to be National Shower Together Day.  When was the last time the two of you just jumped in the shower at the same time and enjoyed each other's naked bodies?  This is not your normal shower.  So, save it for the end of the day.  You shouldn't feel rushed.  The focus should be on just being together and enjoying each other.  Be present and wet and let the troubles of the day wash down the drain.  That my friends is what National Shower Together Day is all about. 

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Thursday, January 12, 2012

A Must See - The Power of Vulnerability

I cannot tell you how valuable this clip is.  The power of vulnerability is one of the things that I talk about often and teach others to understand.  In fact, it is even one module within my Collaborate With Your Soul eBook. Therefore, Brene Brown's speech deeply reasonates with me.  Take the time to watch it - it is worth it.

With love,

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Wednesday, January 11, 2012

The Eyes Can Tell So Much

When is the last time you looked deep into your partner's eyes?  The eyes can tell you so much.  They can be full of passion or pain, but we seldom look deep into them.  Today I want you to do something a little different.  Sit across from your lover and for about 5 minutes just stare into each other's eyes.  See what happens.  Actually, I suggest looking directly into your partner's eyes at least once per day.  It is hard to hide emotions when the focus is put upon the eyes.  Try this exercise and see what you think, it is powerful for lovers.  

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Monday, January 9, 2012

A Little Nibble Can Be Exciting

When was the last time you nibbled on your partner?  Where would your partner loved to be nibbled on?  Sure we discourage biting in our toddlers, but it can be an exciting addition to your lovemaking.  I am not talking Mike Tyson and biting the ear off, but a little teeth in your kisses can be as sexy as you can get.  Try it tonight and bite your partner on the ear or bite his/her lip a little as you kiss.  See what the reaction is.  Usually it will start a little more physical lovemaking and who isn't up for that?

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Sunday, January 8, 2012

Create The Unexpected

Create something different.  Take a little from here and a little from there.  Blend it together and see what begins to develop.  You can always add a little more of this or have the power to create what you want.  You choose whether or not to mix in the old or the new.  You make the choice what you add to the mix.  You (along with your partner) create the blended spirit.

What are you going to choose to bring into your relationship?  What are you going to choose to leave along the edges?  What will you choose to leave behind completely?  Together through conscious choice you can create a relationship that is a beautiful masterpiece.

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