Wednesday, March 28, 2012

Don't Regret Past Relationships

Fallen Lovers

Past relationships offered you a chance to learn something.  Even if you didn't feel that you learned anything then, you can take a look back.  If you are honest about both sides and consider why you reacted the way that you did as well as imagining why your former partner behaved the way he/she did, you have a good chance of learning something new.  In no way, does this mean that you were wrong nor am I saying that you were right ;)  It is simply a chance to reflect and see what lessons may have been right there for you.

It is absolutely true that numerous relationships are not meant to last for your entire life.  Instead, people come into our lives and we come into other people's lives to teach lessons - though we may have no inkling that this is the case.  

So, what is the lesson?  Well, that is for us to figure out.  We may not be able to figure it out when it is occurring.  It may take a few months or even a few years before we are ready to look back and have a possibility of better understanding.  The point is that we will grow and change from every relationship we are in.  It is key to be open to such growth instead of shutting down though.  These experiences offer us amazing chances to expand and further develop mentally, emotionally, and spiritually.

Don't regret the past.  Appreciate it and be grateful for it -- even the worst relationships.  They were learning opportunities.  You would not be the person you are had you not experienced them.  Yet, always be willing to continue the expansion of your consciousness and become more fully awake to your experiences.

With love,

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