Saturday, July 9, 2011

52 great ideas to do with your lover that don't cost anything.

One of the things that works to keep relationships alive is spending quality time with each other. In this day of the information age, it is becoming increasingly difficult to carve out the necessary time to nurture our relationships. What with long work hours, helping kids with their homework, transporting them around to their extracurricular activities, getting dinner, cleaning up and going through the bedtime routine, what time is left?
Unless you orchestrate the time for your relationship, other less important things will crowd in and take what precious little time you do have. Pick a night that will be "date night" with your partner and make a game out of being as creative as you can be. Try to see how many things you can do without spending money.
To get you started, I've come up with some suggestions to help you for the next year. What follows are 52 ideas for how to spend creative time together without spending money. Feel free to add or modify any of the items on the list to suit your particular relationship and circumstances.
1. Take a drive to look at the Christmas decorations.
2. Play cards---perhaps strip poker.
3. Watch a movie together.
4. Go outside and have a snowball fight.
5. Get some finger paints and create your own body art with each other as your canvass.
6. Go sleigh riding.
7. Go ice skating.
8. Work out or exercise together.
9. Stage your own improvisation show.
10. Sing to each other.
11. Review or create a photo album or scrapbook of your memories together.
12. Play a board game---perhaps chess, Scrabble or Twister.
13. Go to a book store, get coffee and read for hours.
14. Work on a remodeling project together.
15. Plan and complete a yard work project together.
16. Do the spring cleaning together---room by room. When done, reward yourself by making love in the room you've cleaned.
17. Put on old clothes and mud wrestle after some drenching rain.
18. Give each other a massage.
19. Play catch---football, baseball, softball or Frisbee.
20. Go to a car dealer and test drive the car of your dreams.
21. Shoot basketball together.
22. Dance together.
23. Take a shower together and wash each other---everywhere.
24. Take a free adult education class together.
25. Go to a mall and have a contest to see which one of you can get the most free samples.
26. Go rollerblading or bike riding.
27. Build a campfire and roast marshmallows.
28. Go swimming or skinny dipping.
29. Give each other a manicure or pedicure.
30. Go somewhere crowded to people watch.
31. Go to a free outdoor event, perhaps a concert.
32. Lie on a blanket outside and watch the clouds or stars.
33. Go on a picnic.
34. Watch a fireworks display.
35. Be creative and engage in sexual role plays. Be anyone you'd like to be for the night who is also exciting for your partner.
36. Sit by the water somewhere.
37. Do a prolonged strip tease for each other.
38. Have a water balloon fight.
39. Sit outside and read poetry to each other.
40. Go for a drive together.
41. Go window shopping.
42. Incorporate food into your love making---chocolate syrup, whipped cream, fondue, strawberries---anything you and your partner enjoy.
43. Call or write to someone you haven't had contact with in a while.
44. Cook something together.
45. Spend an evening just talking with each other. Talk about the things you have done, plans you have for the future, important people in your lives or current events.
46. Take a bubble bath together.
47. Go to a free movie or museum.
48. Take a drive and find the potential in old houses and their properties.
49. Create an imaginary story together---either orally or in written form.
50. Take turns being each other's genie in a bottle by fulfilling your partner's every wish and fantasy.
51. Play in the fallen leaves.
52. Create an exciting scavenger hunt that ends in your bed.
Now you have 52 suggestions for things to do with your partner for every week of the year divided by season. Certainly you don't have to follow my suggestions. Feel free to add your own or to repeat your favorites as often as you'd like.
The main point is not to see how kinky you can get. The idea is to keep your relationship alive by making time together a priority. It is important that you find things to do as a couple that you can both enjoy. If you have vastly different interests then you can enter this with the spirit of taking turns and each agree to happily participate in the activity chosen by the one whose turn it is that week.
As long as you make a habit of making your relationship a priority and allocating time each week for rejuvenation of the feelings that attracted you in the first place, then you stand a good chance of staying together for the long haul.
Please don't let insidious boredom enter into your relationship through the back door. This is what frequently happens when we are busy placing other things ahead of our time for each other. You know what I mean---the job, the kids, our friend in crisis, etc. There will always be a competing interest for the time you've set aside for each other.
Other than natural disasters, threat of death or major crises, do not allow your time together to be invaded by any outside forces. Make sure to create opportunities for you to do things together without outside influence. With more than 50% of today's marriages ending in divorce, make this small investment in the longevity of your relationship. You have nothing to lose and everything to gain. What's stopping you? Start today.
Kim Olver is a licensed professional counselor and a life/relationship coach. She helps people unleash their personal power by living from the inside out, focusing their time and energy on only those things they can control. She also helps people improve the quality of their relationships with the important people in their lives. She offers free chats, assessments, a blog and an eZine, as well as workshops, teleclasses, e-courses, counseling and coaching. Visit her website at or contact her at (708) 957-6047.

Friday, July 8, 2011

Orgasm Quote

Orgasm is a blissful exchange of energy between two lovers.  It might exhaust you physically but spiritually it recharges every atom in your body. 
-Rob Alex-

Thursday, July 7, 2011

Love First Aid Kit

Have you ever had the feeling that you need to put a band aid on your relationship.  Maybe one of you has been hurt in a way that makes you feel upset or just angry.  This isn't a relationship ending situation but one that might keep you at odds with each other for a little while.  When this happens it is a good idea to have a Love First Aid kit around.  Get some Band Aids and throw them in a box with a marker so you can draw a heart on the bandage when you have to use this kit.  Basically, what you do is when you feel upset with your partner pull out the box and put on a bandage with the heart drawn on it as a signal to your partner that you both need to do a little work.  Put other items in the box that the two of you might enjoy.  Inside, you could have your favorite movie, a bottle of your favorite wine, coupons to your favorite restaurant or anything that the two of you enjoy.  At this time, forget your issues and enjoy each other.  True, this doesn't solve the issue or problem, but it helps to show that your relationship is stronger than any problems that might arise.  Plus, getting into this state of enjoying your relationship might help open up the lines of communication so that you can talk about the issue and put it behind you.

Wednesday, July 6, 2011

10 Most Romantic Places in the World - What are your picks?

Everyone surely wants to have romantic holiday or romantic honeymoon. So, you possibly start to look for the most romantic places in the world. Here is a list of them:
Who does not know the romanticism of Paris? Paris is the city for sweethearts with delicious foods, wines, and delightful nuance. In this city, you can have candlelight dinner close to Eiffel tower, walk together along Champs Elysee, or have picnic in park. In short, Paris gives romance and beauty to couples who are in love for ages.
Hawaii is actually the biggest city for honeymoon in the world, especially for Americans. Whatever in Maui or other big islands of Hawaii, this city always offers you the best choice for couples. In this city, you can find beach, tropical forest, luxurious hotel, and some other interesting things in nature.
St. Thomas
This city is located in Virgin Islands. It is the beach city that is famous with its beautiful beaches and interesting shopping centers. This city is full of inns for couples or even families. It also limits the number of parties and the party members, so you do not need to get any difficulties if you want to be intimate with your couple.
The trip with gondola in canals of this city has been symbol for romanticism of this city. Sitting close to couple while admiring the beautiful scenery of the city or having romantic dinner in Italy restaurant or visiting the romantic, beautiful church can be your option when you visit this city. Indeed, Venice is a place that will make you in love and in love anymore.
This is a calm area that is located in South Pacific with beautiful beach bungalow. You can swim calmly there in the morning. There, you can relax on white sand with beautiful coconut trees. Its hotel employees even are ready to help you anything and anytime. You cannot also forget the amazing sunset scenery.
Belize is the most beautiful place for couples. This island is located in the middle of reef. Thus, you can forget all people because many beaches there have been personal property today. Water that is full of colorful fishes and the beautiful beach with its palm will wait for you there.
The Maldives consists of approximately 1,190 coral islands grouped in a double chain of 26 atolls, along the north-south direction, spread over roughly 90,000 square kilometers, making this one of the most disparate countries in the world. The atolls are composed of live coral reefs and sand bars, situated atop a submarine ridge 960 kilometers long that rises abruptly from the depths of the Indian Ocean and runs from north to south. Indeed, this island is one of earthly paradises that can be the most romantic place for you.
It represents an archipelago of legendary beauty that extends from between 4 and 10 degrees south of the equator and which lies between 480km and 1,600km from the east coast of Africa. This is the most relax place in this world, completed with exotic life and calm nuance that always waits for you and your couple. Golf course, spa, fishing trip, and fresh tropical drink will make the honeymoon couples will not go back to their home countries.
This is an old city with medieval century setting in Brussels. Visiting this city is the best way to run away from all noises of the city. Here, you can see stone roads with small cafes in air-gap and some romantic and beautiful things.
This is a place that is full of grape gardens, villas, and small cities of Italy. This place surely will make you have romantic trip because you can live in historic villa with its best foods, ride bike around grape gardens, and drink the best wine. In short, this place is the most beautiful and romantic place in Italy.
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Tuesday, July 5, 2011

Speaking Kind Words

When is the last time you said something that made your partners jaw drop.  Giving that feeling of "Wow that was really sweet" or "Oh my god, that was amazing"  You can speak this way all the time with a little help from Speaking Kind Words.  Speaking Kind Words is a book that instructs you how to change your relationship by the way you speak to each other.  Instead of saying Honey all the time call your partner your Beloved or My Lover and see what kind of reaction you get.  We produced this book because of the changes it made in our relationship.  Pick up a copy on Amazon by clicking the link below and start enjoying the way you talk to each other again. 

Monday, July 4, 2011

Do you still see fireworks?

Happy Fourth of July Everyone.  I hope you are all enjoying the holiday and I hope and pray, you all still have fireworks in your relationship.

I know I do! 
Thank you my beloved. 

Sunday, July 3, 2011

Eating Less Together.

love and support will get you on the road to being healthy together. 
We are creatures of habit and when one of us eats the other one usually does to.  This is especially true when snacking.  How many times has your partner asked you if you want some as they are enjoying a snack?  This leads to the extra weight we all seem to pack on.  I am challenging you all to eat less by helping each other in this cause.  Instead of snacking together try doing something healthy together like yoga, taking walks, or even dancing.  Try it next time you feel like snacking, instead of reaching for the bag of chips ask your partner to go on a walk.  Now you are burning calories instead of consuming them and you are getting some wonderful time with your partner.  Be each others support and you can't go wrong.