Saturday, March 12, 2011

Stay upbeat for each other

Having a bad day?  Who you going to call?
          When you partner is having a bad day who is the one person that can turn that around?  You, of course.  Maybe they are having a bad day at work or thing just are not going right for them in their day.  You can be the source of light that helps make the bad day a little better.  There are many tools you can use to help them with their bad day.  Kisses and hugs are huge when the spirits of your partner are down.  If you are not near them you can use text messages or phone calls with encouraging words.  You can send flowers or set up a wonderful dinner for when they come home.  You might just be surprised at how you can turn your partners bad day around.  You never know you might be the one having a bad day the next time that needs a little boost from your partner.  

Friday, March 11, 2011

Share with your partner.

Photo from Creative Commons.
          My partner is currently writing a novel.  That may not seem too romantic to the couples out there.  However, the fact that she is sharing it with me as she writes it.  It is an honor that I must admit humbles me.   For her to share something that she holds deep inside her is truly a joy of the heart.  Now I am sure not everyone out there is writing a novel but I am sure you are being creative in some way.  Maybe you're building a deck or restoring a car.  Maybe you are making crafts to sell or planning an event for the school.  It doesn't matter what it is; share the process with your partner.  Keep him/her updated on what you are doing and how it is going.  Sure he/she might not seem interested but then again your partner could be your biggest support.  He/she will be there when you hit a snag or need a little input.  Most importantly he/she will be there to share it with you!

Thursday, March 10, 2011

Find Romance in all you do.

Toothbrushes can be romantic.
          Romance is all around you if you just take the time to look.  Think about it do you touch each other out of habit?  Do you think of your partner when something happens you want to share?  When you think of something fun to do who is it that you want to share it with?  There is so much romance around you all the time and sometimes we just overlook it.  So next time you see something that might seem like it's not important, think again.  The fact there are two toothbrushes in the cup might not register with everyone as being romantic but if it makes you think of your partner, then it is romantic.  

Wednesday, March 9, 2011

Make a list

          Do the two of you have a list of things you want to do as a couple?  The bucket list as they call it can be any experience the two of you want to share in your lifetime.  Maybe it is going to see great works of art, or helping out in a third world country but you need to jot them down on a piece of paper and get your list started.  You both might want to bike across Europe, or volunteer in a soup kitchen but they all need to be written down on your list.  Think of the excitement when you get to cross one off.  That is when you know you are living.  

Monday, March 7, 2011

Sunday, March 6, 2011

Find a interesting book on sex.

Pick up Sexy Challenges a fun way to put some adventure in your intimacy (click here to get it).
          Surprise your partner/lover tonight by going out and picking up a sexy book.  There are plenty of books out there that have a positive sexual message in them to choose from.  Once you get your book start reading it making sure that your partner sees that you are reading it.  Their curiosity should take over and want to know what you are reading.  Then you have a great opening for discussing the subject matter.  Next thing you know you might just be adding something different to your intimacy.