Friday, November 21, 2014

Christmas Lists Are Not Just For Children

           You might think that making a Christmas list is for children.  However making a Christmas list for your partner might just help them find the perfect gift for you.  Your list can include things you would like to have that might no buy for yourself.  When you are writing your list don't just put on it material things.  You can include things on your list that don't cost a thing.  Things like a kiss, or a massage, you could even ask for a romantic Christmas eve dinner with wine and candles.   This is a great idea if you don't have much money for presents.  Giving feelings of love and special favors is just the perfect gift.  Make up little coupons for things like kisses or back massages and wrap them up.  You still get the excitement of Christmas and your partner will love his/her gifts.  This way you don't have to wait in line to return them.  

Sunday, November 16, 2014

Start Your Holiday Season Out Right


With this date night you will impress your partner and create memories that will last longer than the season.  

Friday, November 14, 2014

Do You Tuck Your Partner Into Bed?


It may sound a little silly but you need to tuck in your partner if they are the first one to go to bed. I know in my relationship my partner enjoys going to bed much earlier than I do. I enjoy staying up til the wee hours of the morning. My partner has tried this with me but it is just not to their liking. I have tried going to bed at the same time as my partner and it disrupts my whole day and night. In an effort to compromise each night that I am home, when my partner heads off to bed. I follow in like I am going to sleep with them I get in bed and spend at least 15 minutes with them as they fall asleep. This might seem a little strange but it gives us the bond at night time I hate to call it tucking them in but that is what is seems like. It is just that little security that comes from falling asleep with your partner.  Once I feel like my partner is comfortable I quietly slip out of the room and continue my night. Spending those 15 minutes together in the peace of the night has made a wonderful routine for our relationship. Try it if you don't have matching sleeping styles it just might be what your relationship needs.

Wednesday, November 12, 2014

Stop, Go, and Oh My God don't stop - The Signals You Give Your Lover

          Trying to tell each other what feels good during sex seems to be a trouble for a lot of couples.  Something about giving orders or criticism during the event seems wrong to some people.  Yet we all want to feel good and have our needs met.  My solution to this problem is to set up some signals so that you can communicate to your lover while not having to verbalize your feelings.  The next time the two of you have a conversation about sex set us these signals to tell each other how you are doing.  Tell them if you tug on their hair that means you like what they are doing or that if you tap their shoulder you would like them to do something else.  These signals are totally up to you and you can have as many as you want.  Have one for when you are ready to try a new position or when you want some oral stimulation.  This way you don't have to say, "Oh that doesn't feel good" or "Oh MY GOD don't stop that"  unless you are comfortable saying those things.  

Tuesday, November 4, 2014

Date Night Adventure


The Single Question that sets your date nights back to the stone ages.  

I Don't Know, What Do You Want To Do?

This question can go back and forth for couples many times.  To the point that so much time is wasted that the date night might never happen.  

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Sunday, November 2, 2014

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Saturday, November 1, 2014

Cook Together Bring Romance To The Kitchen


Cooking together can be one of those activities that really turns a couple on.  The smell of the food, the team work, and the end results can really tantalize a couple in many ways.  If you haven't tried this it takes some practice but with a little work it will become a synchronized event that will have you both enjoying the evening.  There are many couples that say that cooking is a form of foreplay.  What do you think?

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Thursday, October 30, 2014

Get The Couples Spot November Magazine



Gratitude is super sexy and this month we share with you some great articles, a Sexy Challenge, an expert interview with a sexologist and of course a bit of quirky humor 


This publication is for those couples that want to have a healthy, happy and thriving relationship. We cover a broad range of topics from exercise to sexual happiness, from financial help to spirituality, and everything in between.  
There is no road map to a wonderful relationship. It takes constant work, changes and adjustments to keep your relationship well oiled and running smoothly. This publication is designed to give you ideas and suggestions on things to help you keep your relationship growing. Continual growth in your relationship is vital if you want it to last a long time.  
Within your relationship we encourage you to get busy, get spiritual, and laugh your ass off! When you can do all three of these, combined with the love you have for each other, you will have a formula for a successful relationship. You might not agree with everything we say and we don't expect you to. However, take what works or feels right for you, implement it and leave the rest behind. 

Tuesday, October 28, 2014

October Is Almost Over But Don't Forget The Boobies


We here at the couples spot love boobs. We think they are amazing they can be fun and exciting for both partners. They can be a complete turn on but for many woman they can be a great source of stress and concern. Breast Cancer is a serious concern for any woman, it can rob them of their life. We love our partners so as the protectors we men like to be (and some women, too) make sure you suggest to your partner to get a mammogram it might not seem like a great present to get them one for your anniversary. However showing that you care about them and giving them peace of mind goes a long way. You should also encourage then to do regular self examinations in the shower. Noticing any lumps early is the best way to combat this major killer of women. Make it part of your foreplay if you like, that way you as the partner has a hand in noticing anything different, because we know how much attention you want to show your partners breasts! We joke about this but regular breast play with your lover might help detect breast cancer very early on. The women in our lives are special beyond belief so do your part to protect them from this killer.   THINK PINK.

Sunday, October 26, 2014

Yes A Couple Can Have An Ego


This couple only looks like their relationship is cold. However their couples ego is warm as could be.

We all have an ego all of our own. Be it arrogant or not we all have to deal with it from time to time. My question is however do we have a ego as a couple? Do we see our relationship as different from other peoples be it better or worse. If we do have an ego on our relationship, how do we handle it together. Is it one specific ego that forms from our union or is it a combination of both of our personal egos? We all have the image of a perfect relationship and sometimes we pick a couple that we feel is the ideal couple to base that feeling on. Have you ever left a place and said to each other "Wow they are a great couple" thinking that they have it all together. However we don't know how the respond to each other when they are alone. On the surface they might seem like the couple of amazing relationships but it could all be a front. Their couples ego might be that they have to act like the most amazing couple in front of others. But, when they get behind closed doors it might be quite the opposite. I am sure that you have had contact with a couple that seems like out of the blue they are getting divorced. It shocks you and you think, "Wow they were a really happy couple" but maybe you were just baffled by their couples ego or the image it put forth. I guess what I am trying to tell you is to not let your relationship ego get disillusioned by what you view as the great relationship. Work from the stand point of making your relationship the best it can be for the two of you and let the other relationship egos fend for themselves.