Monday, August 3, 2020

Romantic Comedies are the Answer

Romantic Comedies are the Answer!

One of the hardest things to agree on for couples is what movie to watch.  Different taste are obviously the norm.  Sure you can take turns picking movies that you like but what if she is tired of action adventure movies and he is sick of drams that make you cry?  That is where romantic comedies come into play.  It has both romance and laughs so they can be a win win for coupes picking a date night movie or just a sit on the couch together movie.  Here are a list of some great ones to consider.  Feel free to put your suggestions in the comments. 

Saturday, August 1, 2020

Traffic Secrets

Master the evergreen traffic strategies to fill your website and funnels with your dream customers in this timeless book from the $100M entrepreneur and co-founder of the software company ClickFunnels.

The biggest problem that most entrepreneurs have isn't creating an amazing product or service; it's getting their future customers to discover that they even exist. Every year, tens of thousands of businesses start and fail because the entrepreneurs don't understand this one essential skill: the art and science of getting tra­ffic (or people) to find you.

And that is a tragedy.

Traffic Secrets was written to help you get your message out to the world about your products and services. I strongly believe that entrepreneurs are the only people on earth who can actually change the world. It won't happen in government, and I don't think it will happen in schools.

It'll happen because of entrepreneurs like you, who are crazy enough to build products and services that will actually change the world. It'll happen because we are crazy enough to risk everything to try and make that dream become a reality.

To all the entrepreneurs who fail in their first year of business, what a tragedy it is when the one thing they risked everything for never fully gets to see the light of day.

Waiting for people to come to you is not a strategy.

Understanding exactly WHO your dream customer is, discovering where they're congregating, and throwing out the hooks that will grab their attention to pull them into your funnels (where you can tell them a story and make them an offer) is the strategy. That's the big secret.

Traffic is just people. This book will help you find YOUR people, so you can focus on changing their world with the products and services that you sell.

Thursday, July 30, 2020

Happy as F*ck

Happy as F*ck

This could actually be the theme song for Sexy Challenges.  Mod Sun and his happy hippie lifestyle really relates to the joy we have in our life.  Making the world a better place, creating more happiness and all the time having fun doing it.  

Make sure to check out all of Mod Sun's music he is a wonderful artist and person.  

Tuesday, July 28, 2020

Understanding Lingerie Terms

Very enlightening this video covered a lot of terms that I was unfamiliar with in terms of lingerie.  Now I think I would feel more comfortable going to pick out some lingerie for a special lady.  Watch the video and see what your Lingerie IQ is. 

Sunday, July 26, 2020

Zeus Keep It In Your Pants

Zeus King of the Gods
or Horn-dog

My ancestors is Greek, as my Grandfather came to America from Greece when he was 16, so I have always had a passion for Greek Mythology.  Since the the Coronavirus issues have hit I thought it would be a good time to introduce my son to Greek Mythology.

I was amazed at so many of these myths (if you believe they are myths) have Zeus having sex with a human woman and fathering children all over Greece.  Nothing seemed to be beyond his desires.  As he would change his vision from changing into the form of human women's husbands to animals, to even the wind in one instance to quench his craving for mortal women.

Could his fondness for these human women come from the fact that he created humans in the image of the Gods and Goddesses.  Allowing him to create beauty in so many ways in drove him crazy.  It is strange to think about that power and having that much sex.  Then again he was the supreme being at that time in space.

Friday, July 24, 2020

My Young Entrepreneur

My son had just turned 13 and he came to me asking for money for a video game as is the normal procedure.  This time however after he asked he turned around and said, "You know it would be nice if I could make my own money and not have to ask you for money". Then I saw the pure brilliance of my son.  He said, "I could promote books like you do, only I will be better at it!.  I love his confidence.  So after several attempts by me to tell him all the difficulty and hours I spend helping authors, he was not swayed and asked me for help starting up.

We spent an entire weekend create and refining his book blog and strategies for helping authors.  When it came time to discuss the money, my son again surprised me and beat me to the punch.  He said, "You know Dad, I should some of all I earn back for my education, instead of blowing all this money."  At that point we switch to creating a business plan.  A business plan with my 13 year old son, it was beautiful.

His blog is now live and he is focusing on Children's Books and Young Adult Titles.  He still think the romance books are a little yucky.  I know that will change soon, and we didn't even talk about horror, science fiction or erotica for goodness sake.  His work ethic surprised me and I haven't seen him this focused since that last time I watched him play a video game.

My hope is that you can all go check out his blog and give some encouragement.  I am seeing great things from him and I think it would be awesome if he might be able to team up with some young authors that are starting their journey.  Below are the link to his blog and his Fiverr gig if you or any authors you know might want to help support his first business.  

Sunday, July 19, 2020


Relaxed a Wonderful Place to Be

How many of you are truly relaxed in your life right now?  It might seem pretty impossible to have everything perfect in your life so that you are totally relaxed.  Maybe we are looking at relaxed the wrong way.  Instead of letting our life dictate if we are relaxed or not, maybe we should dictate that our life has to meet our relaxed style.  Making our jobs, families and friends fit around us instead of us focusing on trying to please them?  I am not saying we have to be an asshole to those around us but how many times have you went out of your way to do something for another person just because you felt like you had too?  Relaxed to me mean going with the flow and you can totally be a loving partner, dad/mom or friend without disrupting your flow.  It's all about setting boundaries.  Being relaxed doesn't mean you don't care it means you are ready to go with the flow in a moment's notice and that my friends will make you a good person, spouse, father or mother.  

Wednesday, July 15, 2020

Set Your Scarecrows


Scarecrows are designed to keep crows out of corn fields by scaring them.  Have you ever thought about how we put up scarecrows of our own to scare away other things we don't want.  They might be called walls or safeguards by others but they are surely scarecrows in the same sense.  They protect ourself from outside forces that we feel are troubling to us.  Some of us are afraid of commitment, some afraid of loss, other afraid of change, and with all those fears we put us scarecrows to protect us.  Sit down and take a look at the scarecrows you have put up.  One of my biggest scarecrows is the use of humor, when I feel threatened I always put up my humor scarecrow to protect myself from that which I feel is a threat.  What scarecrows do you have?